Or should I say, knowing your self.
I can certainly say that after having my beautiful baby boy, my mood changed radically. Everyone says is normal to scream and mistreat your husband because you want him to be as "good mom" as you. What we don't know is that they are men and they operate totally different... I will leave this discussion for another post, because for sure there is a lot to talk about...
Going back, after recognizing six months of bad behavior from my part, I did notice ups and downs in my mood. Meaning weeks of being super nice and patient, followed by a week of being super sensible and with no patience at all. Month after month my mood got much better but still there were a few days that I was not me.
One day, on my yearly visit to my psychologist, yes I go to my fabulous psychologist, Jael Toledo, once a year before the end of the year to recharge batteries and be a better me for the year to come. So, in my last visit, I did mentioned this mood situation to Jael and voila, she told me something that I find now groundbreaking...
For all of us, who believe we do not have PMS at all, let me tell you my friend, you might have it, but you, as well as me, didn't know it. I was like many of you, a firm believer that nothing changed with me with the cycle. As a mater of fact I kind of found amusing that people had such mood swings with their cycle. Well, apparently we all have PMS in some way or another. Some before the period starts, others with their periods and a few more, any other time during their cycle.
Some of you, might ask, who cares? Well, If you want to keep your marriage, have a good relationship with your family and even your co-workers, is key you know when in your month you have your "bad days" and plan accordingly. Let your partner know those days, so he knows to be patient with you when that time of the month comes. Is not like you are now going to consciously change for a period of time, but at least you will work with you and your body, and make your life and everyone's around you more enjoyable. Please tell your husbands they are very welcome ;)
Hope this basic tool will help you have more Good Vibes every day of the month!
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